Wednesday, January 27, 2010

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My friend, Meg and I were talking last night and got on the subject of eating. As we were talking (well, as I talked) I realized and even said I should post this online...

I think tracking our food is a good thing. It helps us to really know what/how much we're eating. Too often we eat without being in the moment....munch while doing other things and don't realize just how much we're consuming. But there is a drawback to being hyper-aware of just what you're eating for the purpose of losing weight. Once again, it comes back to my beef with formal diets.


While eating is necessary to sustain us, thinking too much about it is every bit as troublesome as not thinking enough. Diets tend to teach us what to eat, how much to eat, and when to eat it. [i]What they don't teach us is how to eat intuitively.[/i] So you have success with losing weight because you follow a plan. Whether it's a calorie/point plan, or a eat this, not that plan. ..great! But when you're done with the plan (because generally, a diet plan is not a lifelong plan), you still don't know how to eat intuitively.

Intuitive eating in built-in at birth...it's a primary drive to survive. A baby cries when he/she's hungry. A baby stops eating when he/she is full (note to Greenie's in-laws ;) ). Somewhere along the line, whether it's because our mom's told us to finish our plates even though we didn't want more....or because we started eating when we were bored, angry, sad and not because we were hungry....or maybe it was simply that breakfast, lunch, and dinner are at "set" times, so we eat at a certain time of day, not because we're necessarily hungry at that time of day...whatever it was, the trigger mechanism of hungry/full got wonky.

Diets work because you eat according to plan. To eat intuitively means eating when your hungry....stopping when you're full. Sounds simple. And it is. But because it's an inherent trait...something we didn't have to learn, once we've suppressed it it takes some work for our conscious mind to recognize again.


The loop of intuition^^^

And this is where writing down what/how much you eat is so important. As you write it down, take note of the time of day you ate, what you were feeling at the time (hunger, boredom, etc.). When sitting down to eat, take notice of how much food is on the plate. How do you feel about the food (can't wait to shove it in your mouth!....meh, I HAVE to eat it because it's lunchtime, or because the diet said I should). Start getting in touch with your bio-rhythms. Are you never hungry in the morning? But you eat anyway because everyone says you're supposed to? Are you sometimes more hungry, sometimes less hungry? Are you craving certain foods? Are you hungry? Do you prefer meat over salad? Do you like dinner for breakfast and breakfast for dinner? Are you full, but keep eating because it tastes soooo goooood?



Maybe your body is trying to tell you something. Listen to it. Our bodies and our subconscious mind are so much smarter than we are. The body knows what it wants. The subconscious brain does too. But our conscious brain is stupid and our mouth is even stupider. It will eat whatever we put into it whenever we do it (most of the time). So listen and interpret and start to eat intuitively again.

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Thank you for viewing my blog. I nearly wrote "weblog," only hesitating because I realized I would sound very un-hip....a word which inofitself is un-hip. Ugh. Such is my life. My 17-year-old son was once telling me a story about a school friend who was getting on his nerves because this friend was so emotional. I was sharing this story with a youngish co-worker recently, describing his friend as "emu." She looked at me with a puzzled expression and asked, "do you mean "emo?" Believe it or not, I used to be cool. Anyway, maybe that gives you a little insight into my life experiment, where everyday is a new challenge. I hope I won't ramble and that I'll bring you a little laughter in my attempt to be thought-provoking.

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